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Endurance Is the Skill No One Talks About

  • Jan 15
  • 2 min read

The older I get, the more I realise how much of success is about endurance.


Not intelligence. Not confidence. Not even talent. Endurance.


When you’re younger, success feels like something that should arrive quickly if you’re doing the right things. You work hard, you make good decisions, you push forward — and you expect progress to be visible, measurable, and fairly immediate.


Real life doesn’t work like that.



Some of the most meaningful periods of growth in my life were long stretches where nothing appeared to be happening. No recognition. No momentum. No external validation. Just effort, repetition, and a quiet belief that staying in the game mattered more than winning it quickly.


There were moments — many of them — where it would have been easier to stop. To pivot prematurely. To tell myself a story that made quitting feel logical, even responsible. In truth, those moments weren’t about strategy. They were about fatigue.


Mental fatigue. Emotional fatigue. The kind that comes from carrying uncertainty longer than you expected to.


Endurance isn’t dramatic. It doesn’t look impressive on paper. It doesn’t photograph well. Often, it’s invisible to everyone except the person living it.


In business, I’ve seen capable people fall away not because they lacked ability, but because they underestimated how long it would take. They planned for effort, but not for duration. They had energy for the sprint, but not the quiet miles that follow when the excitement wears off.


The same is true in personal development. We talk a lot about motivation, but very little about what happens when motivation disappears — which it always does. What remains in those moments isn’t passion. It’s commitment. It’s routine. It’s the decision to keep showing up when the emotional reward is absent.


Some of my biggest personal doubts didn’t come from failure. They came from waiting. Waiting for something to click. Waiting for progress to compound. Waiting for the internal discomfort to ease.

Endurance is learning to live productively inside that waiting period without becoming bitter or restless.

With time, I’ve come to respect consistency far more than intensity. Intensity burns bright and fast.

Consistency survives storms, boredom, criticism, and long gaps between wins.


Endurance teaches you who you are when no one is clapping. When the feedback loop is slow. When the outcome is still unclear.


And quietly, without announcing itself, endurance builds something most people never reach: depth. Depth of understanding. Depth of self-trust. Depth of perspective.


Very few people fail because they’re incapable. Many fail because they leave too early.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: staying power is a form of intelligence. It’s knowing when to keep going, even when the evidence hasn’t arrived yet.


So if you’re in a season where progress feels slow, unseen, or unrewarded — you may not be behind.

You may simply be enduring.


Question: What would change in your life or work if you measured success not by speed, but by how long you’re willing to stay the course?


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